1. Determine your goal:
• Solo or with a partner? Some sex toys are designed for solo use, while others are meant for couple play (such as couple vibrators or clitoral stimulators).
• Need clitoral, vaginal, or both types of stimulation? There are toys that target specific areas: some are for internal stimulation (vagina, G-spot), others for external stimulation (clitoris, nipples).
2. Choose the type of sex toy:
• Vibrator: Perfect if you are looking for vibrations for intense stimulation, especially for clitoral stimulation. They come in small, large, with multiple speeds and modes.
• Clitoral stimulator: These toys are specifically designed to stimulate the clitoris, often with sensations of suction or pulsations, which are very popular for their effectiveness.
• Dildo: If you prefer internal stimulation, a dildo could be a good choice. It can be rigid or flexible, with or without vibrations.
• G-spot vibrator: This type of sex toy has a curved shape to reach the G-spot, with vibrations to intensify the experience.
• Anal plug: If you wish to explore the anus, an anal plug is an excellent choice. Make sure to choose a model with a wide base for added safety.
• Penis ring: For couple play, the penis ring is often used to prolong the erection and enhance pleasure during penetration.
3. Materials and safety:
• Medical-grade silicone: Recommended for its softness and safety. It’s easy to clean and hypoallergenic.
• Rubber or latex: Cheaper, but they may cause allergic reactions sometimes.
• Metal or glass: These materials can offer unique sensations, such as temperature play (cold or hot).
• Ensure the sex toy is phthalate-free (chemicals that can be harmful to health).
4. Vibration, sound, and battery life:
• Silent or noisy? If you want discretion, choose a quiet model. Vibrations can vary in intensity and modes (constant, pulsating, stepped, etc.).
• Rechargeable battery or disposable batteries? Rechargeable models are more eco-friendly and convenient.
5. Ease of cleaning:
• Make sure your sex toy is easy to clean. Many are waterproof and can be easily cleaned with warm water and mild soap, or a sex toy cleaner.
6. Test different sizes:
• Some toys are small, while others are more substantial. To avoid discomfort, start with a smaller model and increase the size based on your comfort level.
7. Consider your budget:
• Sex toys are available in a wide range of prices. It’s important to stick to your budget while prioritizing quality (usually better material and longer lifespan).
8. Listen to your desires and trust your intuition:
• Sometimes, the best sex toy is the one that appeals to you the most based on your preferences. Don’t hesitate to explore and try different models to find what works best for you.
